WISE WORDS: YOUR CIRCUMSTANCE SHOULD NOT BE AN OBSTACLE

Your circumstance could either motivate you or distract you from your goals. Let it motivate you to achieve, so you can rise above it.

QUOTE ON WORK EXPERIENCE AND COMMON SENSE

Work experience is not synonymous to common sense. Fredilia O.

Further Explanation: The fact say you don tey for the job no mean say u wise or u get sense pass me. Work experience no guarantee common sense.

POEM ON FEAR

Sometimes I wish I could stab fear in the eye. It is so horrible. Many people have lived and died without attaining their full potential all because of fear. Fear you have a stronghold on humans.

Who created you? Where did come from? How did you come about?  Why do you exist? I hate you fear.

Gone are the days when you had a hold on me. I know better now. No more regrets because of you fear. I will live up to my God-given potential. There's no stopping me fear.

INSATIABLE WE ARE BUT GRATEFUL WE MUST BE

Humans are really insatiable. No situation is ever good enough, we always want more. The popular saying, 'you don't know what you've got until it is gone' still holds an ocean of water. I haven't lost anything so stop thinking...not even my virginity (that's a story for another day).

My job is pretty demanding; no break, no rest, under pressure most times, no time to think of self. I crave a job change, a career breakthrough, a bank breaking salary with lots of benefits. I crave more, so much more, I crave the best of the best. I am human, I am insatiable, I will always want more. It is normal.

Something strange happened to me during this short break, I missed work. (I missed work? OMG! I still cannot believe it!) I missed using my intellect to deal with colleagues and clients. I missed my workspace. I missed solving problems. Wow! A strange one for me!

However, I realized somethin from this, though we strive for more, we have to appreciate where we are and our little (or big) steps of progress. I took a moment to appreciate this demanding and tiring job of mine and it was refreshing. I needed a moment away from the job (as if it was gone) to be able to appreciate it more.

I will share some of the things I have learnt so far on my job. Not to make this post too long for impatient readers, I will continue in the next post. Take care fellas.

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Not because it is picture perfect

Not all pictures are posted because they are exceptionally beautiful. Some are posted because of the memories they bring; the love they make you feel; the joy that envelops you when you look at them.

Sometimes I use my social media platforms as archives for good memories. My phone may get faulty or missing and I would lost most or all of my pictures. However, social media is reliable (well, unless the site crashes...we pray none does).

This picture is one of them. Not fancy, no make up or dress up...just me, my #beautifuldaughter and hubby sleeping peacefully behind us...posted just because it is filled with so much love. #goodmemories

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QUOTE ON FEAR

#Pictureoftheweek Child model

Beautiful and photogenic Amari loves the camera. She is a child model. Contact me at uniquelydifferentwithfredilia@gmail.com if you want to use her or simply drop a comment.

Miss Progress International-Vote Ogechi

Miss Progress International is a pageant dedicated to social issues: ENVIRONMENT, HEALTH, HUMAN RIGHTS and CULTURAL INTEGRATION. It is organised by Purgia Italia, and the winner gets 2000euros. Isn't that amazing?

Our country Nigeria aka Naija is represented by Ogechi, CEO Face of Ajegunle.
Please let's support our own...To vote for Ogechi, Contestant #15 Click here 

It is fast and simple, doesn't take up to a minute! Voting last from Sep 05, 2016 12:30am to Sep 30, 2016 11:00pm and you can vote everyday.

Spread the world!  Tell a friend to tell a friend! Share on Facebook, Twitter, IG, etc, but most importantly, vote, vote, vote! 

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My Quotes on Marriage

Marriage is not about finding the perfect person. It's about bringing out the best in the other person; thus making them perfect for you.

No man or woman can bring you happiness. If your purpose of getting married is to be happy, you are getting it all wrong.

A good marriage beats being single anytime.

I hope these quotes speak to someone! Feel free to use them but give credit.

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#MyBlogDiary-My version of 'change begins with me'

I cooked chicken stew and vegetable soup on Thursday, and planned to eat rice and stew with fried plantain on Friday. On my way home from work, I decided to buy plantain. I had just N1500 with me and I also wanted to buy Dano milk and indomie, so I stopped by a superstore.

The price of Dano milk had risen from N550 to N750 and indomie as we all know is now N50 from N35. I wanted 6 packs i.e. N300  both totalling N1050. I had N450 change left to buy the plantain which was N400; but I was angry, because I noticed that since the era of change, I never came back with change. I always spend all the money I take shopping. Sometimes, I'm even tempted to use my debit card. (I have stopped using POS machines so I don't clean my account with one swipe.)

In order not to feel bad since 'change starts with me', I started justifying why plantain wasn't necessary to eat with rice. "Rice is carbohydrate. Ripe plantain is carbohydrate and I'll have to fry it which is not so healthy. In Nigeria, our meals are mostly carbohydrates so I should cut down on excess carbs. No much nutrient in the plantain sef. The chicken is high in protein. Boiled egg is more nutritious."

Chai see me talking to myself because of change! Yes, boiled egg is more nutritious, but haba, is it the once in a while fried plantain that would kill me? This change eh...

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